How can I have safe sex with my partner if I carry the herpes virus?

nina7358 asked:


Can someone educate me a little here on how I can practice safe sex without exposing my partner to the herpes virus? I have never had an outbreak and do not have multiple partners. My ex partner gave me the virus awhile ago and I have a new relationship and was wondering how not to expose this person. Any and all suggestions are welcome.
My partner is aware that I carry the virus, I was honest about it.
I must add my partner is a female.

Free coupons for brand name products you and your family use every day. Visit Qualityhealth.com and save money on your favorite brands.

Tags: , , , ,

9 Responses to “How can I have safe sex with my partner if I carry the herpes virus?”

  1. -aDeN- Says:

    Natural Diet Plan For People Who Have Genital Herpes.

    condoms, always…though even then i wouldn’t feel entirely secure

  2. Kimberly Says:

    The Only Complete Source For Natural Remedies For Genital Herpes, Cold Sores & Shingles. Solid Information For Real Relief.

    First off, I think your new partner should be informed that you have the virus. Then you both can discuss ways of protecting yourselves. This is not something to keep from your partner.

  3. Leo Jen Says:

    “Don’t Worry? Get Tested!”

    Take daily valtrex and always use a condom, and try not to get stressed

  4. lisachan Says:

    Herpes Wise Book Will Show You How To – Get Rid Of Genital Herpes Symptoms In 72 Hours Or Less – Prevent Herpes With Natural Solutions For Life. – How To Cut Herpes Transmission Risk By 80%. – And Much Much More.

    get gf who herpes, many girl out there, go to match.com tell world u herpes and need gf with herpes

  5. Juliet R Says:

    Always ALWAYS use a condom, even though there is no outbreak, you can still pass the virus along to your partner.

    Update-If your partner is female, use a dental dam is she performs oral sex on you. If you dont have one of these, you can take a condom and split in in half.

  6. Clairabell Says:

    “Don’t Worry? Get Tested!”

    There is still a small chance you can pass it along even when using a condom. Taking anti viral medication each day greatly reduces the chances of transmission.
    Go have a chat to your doctor about it and he let you know which medication would be best for you.

  7. LINDSEY S Says:

    Get in tune with your out break symptoms and never have sex when you think your getting or having an out break. Also suppressive therapy (ie Valtrex) can help prevent out breaks and it can help prevent passing herpes onto your new partner.
    You can still pass herpes on even if you use a condom. Condoms don’t cover all of the areas of your genitals that herpes can occur on. The condom only protects the shaft of the penis, herpes takes skin to skin contact to pass on there are still other ares of his genitals that are coming into contact with herpes.

  8. J.B. K Says:

    Herpes Info and testing

    really think u should be talking to ur doctor and if u have herpes u have hopefully seen a doctor — he/she will tell u what and how u should be protecting urself and ur partners.

  9. SCruzMom Says:

    Life Extension Health Concerns

    There are a lot of great websites out there that have really good advice if you don’t feel comfortable talking with your doctor about this. Valtrex and the other herpes suppressing drugs claim to decrease the chances of being contagious by up to 50%. Barrier methods work fairly well – my dentist offers the rubber material he uses for dental work (they call them dams) to his patients to use for safer oral sex. Try to avoid sex during an active outbreak, although there are many documented cases of people still being contagious with no symptoms.

    I’ll add some sites for you to look at below.

    Best of luck!

Leave a Reply

Our Sponsors

Herpes Cure Guide

HMates Free HSV Dating and Friendship Community

Herpes Care Products
RepHresh Pro-B Probiotic Feminine Supplement, 30-Count Capsules
RepHresh Pro-B Probiotic Feminine Supplement, 30-Count Capsules
List Price: $39.77
Sale Price: $23.19
You save: $16.58 (42%)
Quantum Super Lysine, 180 Tabs, 1 Bottle
Quantum Super Lysine, 180 Tabs, 1 Bottle
List Price: $24.27
Sale Price: $10.66
You save: $13.61 (56%)
Abreva Cold Sore/Fever Blister Treatment, .07-Ounce Tube
Abreva Cold Sore/Fever Blister Treatment, .07-Ounce Tube
List Price: $22.54
Sale Price: $7.99
You save: $14.55 (65%)