How do you tell someone you have herpes after you’ve already had sex?

MJ asked:


Coworker and I very sexually attracted to eachother, I was advised not to tell I have herpes just use protection. Now I feel guilty and want to come clean. How do I tell him? What if he gets angry (can't blame him) and starts blabbing.

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5 Responses to “How do you tell someone you have herpes after you’ve already had sex?”

  1. Jessica Says:

    Tell his that you are horrible and selfish, because that is what you are. It’s people like you that are spreading disease because you want to get laid. Update hunny, you can still transmit Herpes even with a condom. Herpes is the EASIEST disease to transmit from female to male. You very well may have given it to him, STEALING his health for your own happiness. I wish I had his number so I could tell him of the $h!t you pulled. If I were his I would sue your @$$ and let everyone know you are a disease spreading hoe.

  2. Tiktaalik Says:

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    If he gets angry and starts telling people, you deserve it because you exposed him to an STI without his knowledge, you jerk. Think about how he must feel.

  3. Jenny Says:

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    You could be in really big trouble!

    You should have told him BEFORE you guys started having sex. If you give it to him and he finds out that you knew about it, you can get sued. You’ll be responsible for paying for his treatment. And let me tell you Valtrex isn’t cheap. Not only that if he needs suppressive therapy you could be looking at hundreds of dollars a month.

    I understand that it’s scary to tell somebody, but it is your responsibility. And if you tell him now, there’s a good chance he will stop talking to you. The one person that I’ve had sex with since I’ve been diagnosed didn’t stop talking to me because he liked how upfront and honest I was with him about it. I even provided him with a pamphlet.

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    why the hell did you not tell him this before you had sex?! >:o

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    There is no easy way to do this. The only reasons you can give for not being honest with him are that you were afraid of being rejected or of him telling others.

    If you do decide to tell him there is a good chance that things will end badly.

    You are definitely not the only one who has done this. According to surveys, about a third of people who know they have genital herpes do not tell their partners before having sex.

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